My wife is super stoked to have me in the Philippines with her. She is much like who I was as a child, in terms of love of country. Something I started aspiring for, as I lost the love for my country. I am now loyal to two countries. But only one kingdom, the kingdom of Heaven. I know the same is true for my Wife. Speaking of My wife, I am going to list 5 things that I absolutely love about her.

  1. She aspires to be GODLY.
  2. She is super PATIENT.
  3. She practices SELF CONTROL.
  4. She is truly the PROVERBS 31 woman.
  5. She always ENCOURAGES me.

I can not emphasize this enough. She is not the typical church WOMAN. A lot of church women plan for a back up, not her. She has God as her backup. I can not express in enough words how inspiring that is.

I also witnessed how PATIENT my Wife is. She has always been quick to maintain her silence when I have lost my cool. When everyone has said they would leave in the situations I put her in. My wife went to God and listened to what He had to say. So she stayed patient, and eventually she ended up marrying me. God won, I lost. I ended up changing some major things in My life. Only God and Her know what I put her through.

My wife has so many times practiced SELF CONTROL. Here are three ways that I know she has practiced self control.


  1. Saving money. She refuses to spend money she does not have for frivolous things.
  2. When I have given her reasons to be angry, She has refused to get angry.
  3. She sets aside time for every thing. AKA follows a schedule for everything.

In regards to being a PROVERBS 31 woman. I wake up bragging about how she works so hard. I know she will be upset with this picture. But this is her in raw form. Just working as hard as she can. I am so proud to have her as my wife. I am truly inspired to have her by my side. This is truly what a proverbs 31 woman looks like.


I don’t know how many times that I have wanted to quit on something and she would speak to me, “Conrad, You’ve got this!” ” Conrad, did You read the Bible?”, or just simply being there for me. She has been my motivation outside of God. I truly thank God for her every day.